Monday, October 03, 2011

A comment to share -

I got this comment on my previous post :

Anonymous said...

wow nice my daughter is 1.5 .How and when should I start letters and alphabet books ? does your son sit at one place and read them.When do they start speaking?

@Anonymous - If I say I didn't do anything to make him start saying his letters you probably wouldn't believe me? :) We do have some board books (for letters) which others had given him either as return gifts for parties or when visiting home. There is also a rhymes book that he has which one of my colleagues had given him. But besides these, we never bought anything as such. I think I should give most of the credit to his daycare where I believe the curriculum is really good and he has picked up a lot of stuff.

That said, I would not worry about when they will learn numbers, alphabets etc. In fact I never worried about any of his milestones. They are just babies and they have the rest of their life for the race that is inevitable, why take any pressure as parents from now itself? At least this has been my mantra and I stick by it with my life. When he didn't roll-over till he finished 5 months, I used to get questions by the day on why, how, what etc, technically I should have been very worried since kids rollover @3 months typically. But he rolled over very very late and he is perfectly fine for that. They will be. It all comes in due course of time so don't get worked up over timelines etc :) That is all I would say :) I have noticed a great difference in babies when it comes to milestones. They all take their time. Sorry for the free advice, but this is the only answer I can give I guess ;) As for when he started to talk, again, that too was very late (by most aunties' standards), maybe around 19-20 months old. Since then his curve with words and numbers has been steep. So don't worry, when they start, you can't stop them ;)


Enjoy!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

This blog cannot be got over an email.Each entry I mean

DivSu said...

@Anonymous - Didn't quite get that ;)

Anonymous said...

Email subscription.Can I get a email for each new post rather than visit your URL

DivSu said...

Not very sure, you can get feeds though with any feed engine (I use Google Reader for my subscriptions)

Sri said...

Reading this post brought back memories of about a year back when my daughter turned 1 and hadnt started walking..my neighbour kept asking every single day and proudly exclaimed before other neighbours that her daughter had started walking even before turning a year old.i was calm on the outside but seething within! Oviya started walking at about 14 months and started talking at about 18 months. The neighbour's daughter who is about a year older than Oviya, started talking only after her 2nd birthday and now Oviya's vocabulary is much better than hers and i am secretly having the last laugh!!

Anonymous said...

Thanks Divya , my daughter never eats. Please suggest some food for 1-2 year olds

DivSu said...

@Anonymous -So doesn't my son. These days he is in a phase of only eating ground, pasted food, but whatever works, I just go with it. One tip that a lot of my friends have said is interesting and they will try is, I grind Muesli (cereal) to a powder, mix with milk and give, it is liquidy, goes in fast and he eats it quickly ;)

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